What I Wore {post 25}

I'm sorry, but I cannot believe it's almost November.  Agh agh agh ... time needs to slow down a little.  We were in Target recently and, if you've been there (of course you have), you've seen the Christmas stuff is already out.  Even my kids did not approve.  "It's not even Halloween yet!"  Word.

Coral Printed Top & White Pants

I've had this coral top from Banana Republic for years.  I love it and hope I have a few more years of use out of it.  I wore this on a rather warm Fall day and paired it with a pair of white pants from Gap and a persimmon bubble necklace from j.crew factory.



Magenta Top & Black and White Colorblock Skirt


This skirt has proven to be a great investment and, luckily, totally on trend right now.  I bought it last Spring for less than $15 at TJ Maxx and now it's all over the place, including for $90 at Banana Republic.  On this day, I wore it with a magenta scoop neck shirt and my wide striped belt from Anthropologie.  



Taupe Pencil Skirt, Cherry Print Blouse, Black Cardigan

Oh.  It becomes painfully obvious when I am due for a haircut -- the picture below is a clear sign that it's time to get to the salon.  Anyway, the outfit worked despite the hair. I am a big fan of the belted cardigan.  I wore my taupe pencil skirt (Limited) with a cherry printed delicate blouse from about 8 years ago at Forever 21.  I wore it under a fitted black cardigan from Forever 21 and a red belt from Ann Taylor. 



Sorry for the iPhone photos.  I've been a little lazy with the camera lately.  I hope everyone is having a great end of October.  
   
See you swoon,


My baby takes the morning [run] train

And now that song is in your head, isn't it? Come to think of it, that will be an excellent addition to my running playlist.

I am a big fan of morning runs.  I am a naturally early riser.  I always have been, and once I had my two kids (who were even earlier risers), that pretty much guaranteed that my natural wake-up time is now around 5-5:30 am.  I am at my most energetic in the early morning hours, and frankly, I love to get my runs in then because they really set up my day.  The only issue: once the Summer is over, it is dark -- really dark -- in the morning.  Rather than sit and wait for the sun to rise around 7 am, I opt to run in the dark.  Obviously safety is a huge issue.  I often see fellow morning runners when I am out there, and some of them are safe but others are not.  The mother hen in me wants to scream at those runners who are just out in their normal running clothes and no reflective or light-up gear that they're being incredibly stupid, but I don't.  Even though they are being incredibly stupid.  So here are my tried and true tips for morning running at o'dark thirty.  But first, here is a shot of what I look like before I head out. Sweet. I'm gonna rock down to Electric Avenue.




1.  Headlamp

The first thing you need is a headlamp.  Yes, it will make you visible to cars (mine has a steady bright light in front and a red blinking light in the back), but it will also light your way.  Dark streets can be super dangerous: twigs, rocks, holes, those big green ball things that fall from the trees ... a headlamp will light your path so you don't step on or into those things.  I don't even notice my headlamp: I wear my visor and rest it on the brim.  I wear a Black Diamond Sprinter headlamp.  I bought it from REI, but you can find them in lots of places.  




2.  Reflective Vest

This is probably even more important than a headlamp: get a reflective vest.  My friend Amy gave me mine for Christmas.  It is a shockingly bright neon green with shockingly bright reflective strips and a blinking red light on the front and the back.  It is safe to say that cars *cannot* miss me.  There are a bunch of styles of these vests - this one is more strap than vest, but I have a vest too.  It is well worth the investment.  It's also wise to wear a neon or bright running shirt so when the sun starts to rise, you are even more visible.   This is my singlet, which is the Amphipod Running Xinglet Vest.  It is adjustable and does not get in the way.  I think it was around $25. 




3.  Check In


If you're running solo, make sure someone knows where you are, how far you are going and when you expect to be back. This is smart running behavior for any kind of run, really.  I always text my coworker who is another early riser and who lives locally with my mileage, my route (e.g., "I'm running to the office and round loop and back") and then text him when I am back home.  

4.  Assume the Worst about Drivers

I am on high alert when I run on streets in the morning.  I always assume that the drivers on the road are half asleep, are distracted and don't really expect to see me.  I don't allow myself to zone out until I am on a trail or path closed off to traffic.  I make sure to run on the correct side of the road (or the side with the biggest shoulder) and to keep my eyes on the cars approaching me.

If a car looks like it is getting too close, I find there are two ways to deal with it, in what I call the "Amy way" or the "Bill way."  Amy and Bill are my friends (who are married. to each other) and my training partners in running, triathlon and now Ironman.  I am their friend/training partner/third wheel/sister wife/annoying 5 am texter who implores them to "wakey wakey who is ready to race today!!!!".  Anyway ... they each taught me ways, very different ways, to handle cars who are getting a little too close.

The Amy way is to make eye contact with the car and extend your arm out to your side, which is to signal to the car that it needs to give you a wider berth.  This is a gentle, yet pretty effective, way to essentially say "Give me some room."

The Bill way is to make eye contact with the car, yell out something really loud like "HEY!!! SOME ROOM HERE!!!" and throw your arms up in the air in disgust.  This is a not-so-gentle, yet very effective, way to say, well, "HEY GIVE ME SOME ROOM HERE!!".  I use both methods, though sometimes a combination of the two works the best.  

5.  Run a Familiar Route

I don't think dark morning runs are the time to explore new routes:  stick to tried and true.  I have a bunch of different mileage options for my morning runs: from 3 to 7 miles and I don't vary from them, primarily because I know those routes like the back of my hand and I know when to anticipate cars, traffic and what the road conditions are.  

6.  Dawn is Scarier than Dark

I spend most of my run hoping for the sun to rise, and then as soon as it does, I realize "GAH.  Drivers are morons at dawn."  While not really true, I think it is far more dangerous to run at dawn than dark.  In the dark, my vest and headlamp make me super easy to spot -- I am lit up like a Christmas tree and all my reflective gear make me impossible to miss.  At dawn, not so much.  I am on very high alert at dawn - simply because drivers don't expect to see me and can't see me as well as in the dark.  This is also where the "familiar route" advice comes into play:  I know the dangerous spots of my run and know when to proceed with caution.  There is this one intersection on my morning runs that I cannot avoid, because it is the only way I get home.  Drivers often don't pay attention at this intersection and do rolling stops through it.  I've had a bunch of scary moments at this intersection (this is the spot where the "Bill way" above gets a ton of play) ... so I proceed with extreme caution.  

So there you go.  Some tips for safe morning running.  One of the hardest parts is to get yourself out the door, especially when it's dark and cold out.  But once you take the first step, it's all good.  Let me know if you are a fan of the morning run too.  :)  And if you are and you're not wearing reflective gear, tell me that too so that I can come find you and beat you down.  

See you swoon,

Sunset

A few weeks ago at Big's soccer practice, I looked up and saw this magnificent sunset.  I snapped the picture with my iPhone.  It was even more gorgeous in person.  


I thought about leaving you with a quote about sunsets.  But they all seemed a little too ... melodramatic and heavy to me.  So I leave you instead with this gem from Jack Handy from Saturday Night Live.  

"Is there anything more beautiful than a beautiful, beautiful flamingo, flying across in front of a beautiful sunset?  And he's carrying a beautiful rose in his beak, and also he's carrying a very beautiful painting with his feet.  And also, you're drunk."

This is apropos for my weekend: I have dinner plans with Amy and a shopping trip with Jamie, both involving cocktails.  I hope you have a great weekend filled with beautiful flamingos, beautiful sunsets and beautiful drinks.  

See you swoon,


What I Wore {post 24}

Happy Wednesday!  Today is picture day at my kids' school -- and it's picture day on the blog too.

Anthropologie Striped Dress, White Cardigan, Pink Grosgrain Belt

I bought this dress at Anthropologie this Summer.  I wore it a few weeks ago on a warm, early Fall day.  I added a light white cardigan and my super old pink grosgrain polka-dot ribbon belt.



Polka Dot Blouse, Black Pants, Gold Chain

I got this polka dot blouse last Winter and have worn it a bunch.  I usually wear it tucked in, but I thought the flowy look would be a fun change.  I wore it with my black pants and a long gold thick chain from Banana Republic.




Grey Dress & Teal Belt

This dress is a wardrobe workhorse.  I bought it in February 2011 at the Limited. I was with Jamie and we both loved it ... but it needed a little work. So I had it tailored a little, and now I adore the fit.  I wear it alone, with belts, with jackets, with cardigans ... everything.  This day I was giving a presentation, so I kept it simple and added a thin teal belt.




Voila!  And try to ignore the apparent Barbie carnage in the corner behind me ...

See you swoon,

Little's Room: Posters and Butterflies and Lanterns, oh my!

Ahhh.  Crossing things off my project list feels so good!  After a really long hiatus from house projects, I have been making great progress:  first with finishing up my picture wall over the TV in the den and then with finishing up things around Big's room.  Next up on the list: Little's room.

Little's room looked pretty good when I started.  But I wanted to make it better.  It had art on the walls, but I pretty much just threw things up when we first moved in to make her space feel homier for her.  I knew I wanted to eventually "finish" the space.  And here it is after a little more work!



So, over the last year, I've been buying artwork and decor, and I've been planning where I would put everything.  Here's the lot:


I let Little pick out some of the art, while I picked out other pieces.  It should come as no surprise that she wanted a princess poster -- one that had "blue Jasmine with the bikini" (sigh).  I want her to love her space and I want it to feel like hers, so I agreed but insisted that we frame it.  OCD in the house!  I hung it next to her bed.  Next up was the space over her bed.  I found some pink paper lanterns in the party supply section at Target and hung them over her bed in a cluster.  I put her Little Lamb print over her bed and the cute birdie print (also from Target) over her nightstand.  




Next: a mirror.  I wanted a really girly ornate frame for her mirror, and I found this on Craigslist for $15.  The gold is temporary:  I am going to paint it (and a bunch of other spots in her room) lavender for her.  But I wanted to put it in its place so I could decorate around it. The sweet fabric butterflies around the mirror are from Pottery Barn Kids.  I got them after Christmas for $5.  I've been holding on to them since then.  




While I was at it, I hooked up her floor lamp to the lightswitch. It required a bunch of extension cords and cord covers, but now when she turns on her lightswitch, there is a lot more light.  I put her growth chart near the far wall too.  I love it in this space.  I hung it from a hook that I bought a really long time ago from Anthropologie.  



Here's the spot over her little chest right near the door:  I bought a LOVE print by Made by Girl (love her stuff. love) and framed it with an IKEA Ribba frame.  Done.  This print is so appropriate for my little Little - she is so loving and any time she writes her name or my name or any family member's name, she follows it with "love."  It melts my heart.   



And finally, here is her bookshelf area.  I bought the wall shelf from Home Goods last Summer (as in 2012) and it didn't work in the spot where I planned to use it. So I hung onto it.  I bought the brackets from Home Depot and popped it into place.  I'm not done decorating the shelf.  The frames are from Target and I have cute Strawberry Shortcake prints to put in them.  I'll do that soon.   


Here is a rare action shot of me putting up the shelf, taken by one of my rogue photographers.  


That's it for now!  I still have some work to do in here.  I need to paint the backs of her bookshelf (lavender) and paint the mirror lavender too.  And I need to put something in the corner by the window.  But I can check this one off my list for now.  Next up: a little finishing touches in my own bedroom and a slew of painting projects.   

See you swoon,