Bridesmaid Gift Ideas

Believe it or not, finding the perfect bridesmaid gift is VERY hard. This hunt can continue for months and I know, at least in my experience, it was very difficult to find something I loved, that was budget friendly, and showed the girls how much I loved them and appreciated their support. When it comes down to it, these gifts should be thoughtful but also something that someone can use again and will bring the memory of the event to them every time they see their gift or go to use it.

I have some really great ideas here that are fun and personal.  These gifts can be used over and over again and the best part is that I stumbled upon a fun new jewelry site with the cutest personalized necklaces, I may just have to buy one for myself...to remember this post of course!!  Check these out and fill me in on some of the gifts you have received.  If you have any gift ideas to add I would love to hear them!










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Home Swoon Home: laundry room before & after

Who doesn't love a before & after?  We sure do.  We also know that most of our readers are in a similar boat as we are: wanting to decorate and update their current homes without spending a ton of money.  It can be done -- with a little creativity, some careful planning and definitely a bunch of time and elbow grease, you can make lovely changes to your home, whether you rent or own.

To wit: my laundry room.  There is not much I can do to update the space.  It is in the unfinished part of my basement.  We cannot move the washer and dryer upstairs because there is no room for it.  The laundry room was perfectly functional, but perfectly ugly as well.  I decided to make the best of it and make as many pretty updates as I could.

Here are the before & afters. Note the unfinished concrete walls, the scary window and the ugly concrete floor in the before shots.  Sorry for the grainy quality of some of these pictures: they were taken with my phone before I got my snazzy new camera.  

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The transformation was a quick one - maybe a week or two.  First, my sister and I used Drylok Extreme Masonry paint, which the kind folks at Lowes tinted a light blue color for me, to paint over and seal the concrete walls.  Two coats later, it looked so much better.  Then, my dad and I bought some thin lauan plywood (which I mentioned in my DIY headboard post) to cover the unfinished wall - the studs were already there, so all we had to do was cut the ply to size.  And our job was made even easier when Lowes (love Lowes!) offered to cut the wood for us.  It only took us a few hours to hang those walls.  I put a coat of primer on the new walls and then used a coat of my leftover masonry paint so that the color would match (note: I had to buy two gallons of this paint, so I had tons left over).

Once the walls were painted, I added a curtain over the scary window. This one was purchased from the JC Penney outlet - it's a cafe curtain and was $10 for two!  So I have a spare.  I just hung the curtain on a tension rod and cut around the dryer vent.

My little white cabinet was next on the list.  It was fine before, but next to my new lovely light blue walls, it looked positively dingy.  So, I put a coat of Rust-Oleum oil-based white in gloss finish, which I happened to have in my garage.  I bought some new hardware at Lowes for the doors and called it a day.  The cabinet went from shabby to chic overnight.

I used contact paper to cover the top of my long black table from IKEA (purchased 10 years ago).  I had the green plastic basket already in the house, which works great (and coordinates!) to hold our detergents.  The artwork was a steal (almost literally) from Marshalls.  It was 70 cents.  I repeat: 70 cents.  I think I even paid for it in change just because I could.  I love it!

Finally, the biggest change was one that most people don't realize is even possible: the floor.  I hated, detested, and was so sick of that ugly stained floor.  I went to my friends at Sherwin Williams and came out with a can of their amazing floor enamel. Best part: it's latex so there is not the mess and hassle associated with an oil-based formula.  It is so durable and went on beautifully in just two coats.  I decided to add a punchy blue color on the floor, "cloudburst," for a splash of fun in the room.

All told, the transformation cost about $150.  Here are the numbers broken down:

$60 for two cans of Drylok Extreme masonry paint

$40 for Sherwin Williams floor enamel

$35 for lauan and building supplies for walls at Lowes

$10 for two cafe curtains from JC Penney

$3 for tension rod for curtain

$5 for cabinet hardware

$.70 for artwork at Marshalls

$0 (white cabinet paint, contact paper table topper, primer for walls)

You'll be seeing a slew more before & afters in weeks to come - we hope you enjoy them.  Let us know if you need some advice for sprucing up your own space! We know how to stretch a dollar and get the most out of it.

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What Would Jamie Wear: Get to know my style

I thought that it would be nice if I gave you all a little peak into what I like to wear.  I love finding outfits for different events but one of my favorite things to do is "window" shop on-line and build tons of shopping bags! I know you are probably thinking that this is a bad idea and I spend a ton of money but it is actually the opposite.  The best part about this is that I get to imagine all of the things I could have and mix and match new items that would work with what I already have in my wardrobe.  I do buy things from time to time but the retail therapy for me comes in the idea that in just one click of a mouse...and a few numbers from my credit card it could all be mine!

Back to my original thought, I would like you to see one outfit that I would really enjoy wearing, it is on the casual side but to be honest this is how I dress as often as possible.





















What are some of your favorite items to wear?  What is your style?  I would love to hear from you!

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Home Swoon Home: DIY Upholstered Headboard

It is completely embarrassing to admit this, but I have not had a headboard on my bed since college.  Inexcusable!  As I mentioned in an earlier post, I am in the process of redecorating my home to make the space truly me and a place I truly love.  This past week, I tackled an upholstered headboard.  My friends, it couldn't have been simpler.  And due to some good luck, my out of pocket cost was less than $20.  Here are the details:

What you need:

- thin piece of plywood (I used very thin lauan plywood from Lowes, which I had on hand after using the lauan for walls in my laundry room - more to come on that project!).  You can also use about 3/4 inch plywood.  Make sure it is light, as you'll have to mount it to the wall later.

- batting & 1 inch thick foam (I bought the batting at Walmart for about $4; I got the foam for free at Target because I had a gift-card:  I just used a foam mattress pad and it worked great. I happened to find one on clearance for super cheap.  But you can also get the foam at Michael's or AC Moore)

- fabric large enough to cover the entire piece of plywood and about 2 inches extra on each side.  You want thick upholstery fabric: something durable.  Believe it or not, canvas drop cloths from the painting section of any hardware store work perfectly for this.

- upholstery stapler & scissors



What you do:

(1) Measure your bed frame and figure out how wide and how tall you want the headboard.  I used some blue painter's tape on the wall to figure out how tall the headboard would be.  I just propped up the pillows and saw what height looked good.

(2) Cut (or have Lowes or Home Depot) cut your plywood to size.  Lauan is so thin I was able to use a sharp razor on it and it was fine.  But a jigsaw would have been ideal (hint hint ... Christmas gift anyone?).



(3) place your plywood on a soft, clean surface.  Please forgive my "helper" Coco.

(4) cut the foam to the size of your plywood.  Lay foam on top of plywood.  Then cover the foam with the batting, ensuring there is some overlapping batting on all four sides.


(5) Carefully turn the headboard over and staple the batting to the back - just one or two staples on each side to hold it in place will do the trick. Then, flip it back over and take your fabric (which you should iron before you get started) and cover the batting, again making sure that there is extra fabric over all four sides.

(6) Turn the headboard over again and start stapling. Make sure that you pull the fabric & batting nice and taut before you staple. It is also wise to check your work after every few staples, just to make sure everything looks fine.

(7) Once all of your staples are in, cut the excess fabric and batting from the back of the headboard and turn it over to admire your hard work.



(8) This part is optional:  I knew I wanted nail-head trim around my headboard, so I bought this super cool "trim tacks" from this shop on eBay.   Basically, it is a reel of nail-head looking trim and you nail in a tack every five spaces or so. It is really easy to use, but I warn you: it is sharp.  My fingers look like Edward Scissorhands got a hold of them: I advise working with gloves if you do this.

(9) I used simple "D ring" hooks to mount the headboard to the wall (you can find these in the picture-hanging section of Lowe's -- just ask: I've found the folks at Lowe's incredibly helpful in all my home projects).  I had figured out beforehand where the top of the headboard should be, so I just measured down from the ceiling and figured out where to drill my holes.  I mounted the D-rings on each side of the headboard and then put large screws in the wall:  one side in a stud (lucky me: I happened to find a stud) and the other side in a wall anchor.   Hang the headboard, check if it's level and ta da! done. It took me about 3-4 hours from start to finish (i.e., from cutting the plywood to hanging on the wall)



And the best part? It cost me only $19 out of pocket.  I had the plywood and fabric on hand.  The nail-head trim was $15 (including shipping) and the batting was $4.  Foam was free.  However, even if you have to purchase plywood and fabric and foam, the total would easily run less than $50.  Not bad!

I have to say - I'm proud of my work!  It's very sturdy and doesn't move an inch.  Need any handy-help? Let us know!

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Shower Etiquette: To give a gift or not?

This is perfect to follow up to what we talked about the other day regarding sending a gift for a wedding if you cannot attend.  So, what about a shower?

The whole point of a shower is to "shower" the bride with gifts so that the happy couple can start their new lives together with essential items...and some fun items to get them of to a great start.  Showers are a little more laid back so I think it really depends on how well you know the bride or groom.  If you are close to either side it is a good idea to send a gift even if you cannot be there, the guest of honor will be truly grateful that you still thought of them and will remember that you cared enough to pick something out for them even though you could not enjoy the festivities.

So I would like to know how you feel, would you send a gift or not an are there certain situations that require a gift or not?

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